DATING TIPS FOR MEN

1. Natural or vamp?
You never know what to put for a new date? The trick is to choose an outfit in which you are comfortable and which highlights you. “Men do not notice women’s clothes so much, so it’s better to put on a kit in which you feel good and give us confidence,” explains the president of the styling agency Les effrontés, Marie-Claude Pelletier.
The instructions: be consistent. With our personality, first: do not bother to show up with the stilettos (on which we pitch moreover dangerously for lack of having them released) when we wear Converse year round. Consistent with our intentions, too. We want to spend a lifetime with the guy or only one night? The answer will determine if the Dita Von Teese look is set …

Another little trick: avoid hyper-trend choices. The über fashionistas find the turbans or orthopedic shoes at the Prada very in, but for guys, this is not ideal. And bet on suggestive sensuality (a fine knit sweater, a nice neckline that reveals subtly when you lean) rather than outfits too sexy and too showy.

2. The right address

The place of meeting will tell a long story about the person who fixed it. If the choice comes back to us, it is better to opt for a place that resembles us, where we feel good – physically, but also financially (is it necessary to blame one’s pay in one evening?). The idea is to have fun and chat. The bars or restaurants super noisy are therefore to be avoided, as are the places where the waiters call us by our first name and where the regulars of the corner make us the kiss. “We must choose a neutral place, not the place where all our colleagues are going to relax!” Adds Jean-Marc Larouche, author of the book L’étiquette du dating and president of the Intermezzo Montreal dating agency.

3. A Little Fast
No one wants to lose hours because of a painful date. The Americans have created a guide (The Essential Dating and Dumping Guide) with the best restaurants and bars from which it is easy to escape by pretending to go to the bathroom. Here, you are advised to focus on prevention. A five to seven is ideal for a first meeting: it is long enough to make you a good idea of ​​the prospect and short enough not to waste your time in case of disappointment. And you can always prolong the evening by going supper then if your suitor and you are inseparable …

4. The hour of confidences

Of course honesty is a sure bet! Nevertheless, the discretion also, especially during a first appointment. You can therefore wait a few weeks before talking about your childhood traumas and monumental debts. This is not hypocrisy … it is taking time to get to know more. “If you speak for 30 minutes to your ex, it can also be heavy,” says Marie-France Archibald, founder of the Singles Seduction Workshop. The purpose of a meeting is to know someone, not to come back to the past. “But this specialist in romantic relationships also advocates for more flexible rules. “Every situation is different. Imagine that a psychologist meets a social worker. It may be normal for them to get into more profound discussions sooner! “In any case, your flirt is not your shrink (or yours!). This does not prevent more personal questions (without interrogation!), To learn more about the other. Above all, turn off your cell phone and say only the truth, nothing but the truth. Playing the chameleon – making people believe that Chinese cinema or wilderness camping is being created to create links – can indeed lead to unfortunate situations: endless discussions about Chinese directors or repeated invitations to go camping.

5. Good manners
Friendly advice: taboulelle (full parsley), garlic pasta (guess why), tonkinoise soup (good luck to fish noodles with chopsticks), sauce dripping ribs and the “maxiburger eight Floors “are not indicated for a first supper. As for the three cosmos swallowed dry to relax, they risk just too much to relax …

6. Who pays?
A delicate issue. Officially, the contemporary label suggests dividing the bill at the end of the first encounter, since it is a test whose continuation is not assured. For the second and subsequent meetings, it is usually the inviting person who pays. But there again, there is no strict code in this matter: the important thing is to be at ease. Keep in mind that it is not because a guy will kindly offer you a drink that he wants to deprive you of your sacrosanct independence

Your appearance is important. This doesn’t mean that you need to be a male model, but it does mean that you need to take care of yourself, and put a little effort into how you look before you leave the house.Your appearance is important. This doesn’t mean that you need to be a male model, but it does mean that you need to take care of yourself, and put a little effort into how you look before you leave the house.
A big turnoff to women is men that don’t care about how they look. Are your close dirty, worn, and altogether sloppy? If you are going out on a date with a woman, you’ll need to pull yourself together a bit. There’s nothing wrong with wearing jeans and a T-shirt with the guys, but a woman will want to see you try a little harder. You can be sure that she is looking (again and again) in the mirror before she meets your for your date. Why shouldn’t you do the same?
There’s nothing wrong with the casual jeans and T-shirt if they are clean, unstained, and fit well. If you’re picking them up off the bedroom floor from the night before, they probably don’t look okay. Also be sure that what you are wearing is appropriate for where you are going. If you are going out for a nice dinner, find out if there is a dress code.This might sound basic, but don’t leave the house without first doing these thing.1. Take a shower daily.2. Shave.3. Comb your hair.4. Brush your teeth for white teeth and fresh breath.5. Put on clothes that are clean, well-fitting, and pressed.
If you already have a date this is essential. And if you don’t and are just going out to run errands, it’s even more important. You never know when you might meet someone. And don’t you want a woman’s first impression of you to be at your best?
We’ve covered dressing well, next is how you present yourself. Your posture says a lot about how you feel and think about yourself. When you slouch, it looks like you are not very self-confident.
An example of self-confidence in female attraction is how women are attracted to men in uniforms. This isn’t because of the actual uniform; rather it’s the posture and perceived confidence that attracts women. Their confidence makes them look like they think they are winners, and by portraying that image, women believe they are winners too.
Your hair style is important to your overall look. Pick a style that makes you look successful and confident. Avoid trendy styles and cuts that will take a long time to primp. Stick with a classic, clean look. Spend the extra money to go to a men’s hairstylist for advice on a classic style that will look good with your face shape and body type. Ask for something that is easy to maintain, and then be sure to maintain it.

Basic personal hygiene is something that you might think goes without saying, but it is so important that it’s worth spelling it out. Being clean and well-groomed is essential to your success with women. Women notice the small stuff. Do these things when getting your self in order:
1. Trim and clean your fingernails.
2. Thoroughly wash and scrub your hands to remove grease and grime and soften them.
3. Go to the dentist regularly for cleanings, and look into having your teeth whitened professionally, or use over-the-counter whitening strips.
4. Clear up your complexion using over-the-counter products, or see a professional dermatologist for a prescription. No one needs to have acne thanks to today’s modern science.
5. Get rid of pasty dull skin. Spend a little time outside to get some color, or if you can’t, spend a few minutes at a tanning salon. Lots of men do it, and you’ll look healthier and sexier.
When preparing to go out:
DO:1. Wear clean and well-maintained shoes that are appropriate for your outfit and the occasion. For example, expensive sneakers with a suit won’t impress her.
2. Drink in moderation if you decide to imbibe. Nothing is a bigger red flag to a woman than someone who loses control. It’s not only dangerous but it might also be a sign of an in ability to handle stress.
DON’T:1. Wear more than a dab of cologne or aftershave. Overpowering scents are not attractive, and she shouldn’t be able to smell you before she can see you.
2. Wear inappropriate jewelry, or more than just a piece or two of jewelry.
3. Smoke tobacco, chew or dip tobacco. It’s a dirty habit that is not attractive.
4. Use drugs. The good women will walk the other way when they realize you use drugs.

This article will be about closing the deal with women, with closing the deal we mean setting the first steps into a pleasant intimate relationship with a woman. This step is only possible if you have achieved good stable rapport with a woman (she gave you nonverbal indications that she is in to you). There are a few things you have to keep in mind in order to make this last step a success.
Double check
To prevent nasty situations it is important that you are absolutely sure that she is completely into you, otherwise Closing The Deal With Women will be impossible. So use the indicator-list of the previous article and re-check for yourself if she really does show clear signs that she is attracted to you. Not all points have to be completed, just a fair amount. The primary indicators were:
She wants to be close to you
Playing with hair
Moisturizing her lips with her tongue
Fiddling gently with objects
Looking at your mouth
Laughing at everything you say
Touching her neck
Willingness to walk arm in arm with you
Giving you compliments
First kiss
So, your date is showing some clear signs that she is in to you. Women are not likely to initiate the first kiss themselves because most of them like to be ‘conquered’ by a strong, confident man. To be this man you need to convey these characteristics. There are two basic ways that you can initiate a first kiss, these are the direct approach and the indirect approach.
The indirect approach
This approach is about doing a final test fist to see if she is ready for romance. This method is quite effective and we love it. If she is close to you and the interaction is on a high point you can try to discretely touch her hair for a minute or so, if she doesn’t object to it your chances are very high that she wants to be kissed.
The direct approach
In the direct approach you have to initiate the kiss in a direct manner. There are many ways you can do this, in this section we will show you two of them. One great way to make a first kiss is to say something sexy at the right moment (peak of the interaction). For example you could say: “You know, I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now”, the chances are high that she will be flattered by what you said and challenge you to kiss her. Another way would be (if you are close to her) to look her straight in the eyes and them kiss her gently.
Conclusion
For effectively Closing The Deal With Women you need to be absolutely sure that she is in to you. We advise you to re-check the attraction indicator-list reposted in this article to make sure that her reception will be positive when you are trying to kiss her. There are two different approaches you can use for the first kiss, the direct and indirect approach. The difference between them is the time it takes to execute, also with the direct approach you need to be really sure that she want to be kissed through the technique mentioned in the article.

Everybody wants a good dating profile. Having a good looking profile photo and interesting text in your profile will, of course, make people want to visit your profile. So it is of vital importance for you to know what people like. This article will give you an idea on how to set up your profile successfully and get more success in on-line dating.

The secret to making a good dating profile picture

Various researches show that people browsing on a dating site always look at the profile picture first and then they will read what you have to say. So your profile picture can make or break your success in on-line dating!

“What is a good profile picture”, you might ask yourself…

A good profile picture should convey that you’re a person that people can trust and most important that you’re truly happy with your life. Both of these characteristics are found to be sexy and attractive. Making a good profile picture is about balance, do try too hard to look a certain way. Because looking unnatural is not sexy. Try to actually become happy and overcome your insecurity issues, as mentioned in step 1.

So, what are examples that make you look like you’re trying too hard to impress?
Pictures of you showing off your muscles too much
Wearing sunglasses on most of your pictures
Attention grabbing Photoshop edits
Pictures of you with a lot of girls/men (depends

on your sexual preference)
Pictures of yourself from years ago
Do not include photos of yourself with more attractive friends!

Show pictures of yourself with pets, if they are cute and cuddly. If you happen to be a herpetologist or something don’t show these pictures.

Include pictures of yourself doing cool stuff, but don’t overdo it by posting 10 pictures of yourself skateboarding, think about your target and what they would like to see.
Try to wear nice clothing in your pictures, especially girls are really sensitive about this.
Include at least one full body picture, it’s not only about how you look but that you’re not hiding any major defects.

What to write in a dating profile

Deciding what to write can be tricky. Overall it’s a good idea to try to imagine yourself into the people reading your profile, how would the introduction come across to them? On the following website you will find a clear explanation on how to build your profile. Generally it comes down to that it is a good idea to stand out from the crowd and don’t say what thousands of other users are saying. Starting your profile with I am: smart, nice, attractive, etc, will make your profile look really generic. Try to write loosely and be spontaneous through your writing, it will pay off.

Getting traffic to your profile

If you want to have a good dating profile, you need traffic. Various dating sites give you various opportunities to put your digital footprint or their site. For example, in Okcupid you have the opportunity to answer tons of questions for everyone to read, you can even give your own original responds to questions. Another smart thing to do is to regularly update your profile with new interesting photo’s and new information about yourself, this will raise people’s curiosity and will likely revisit your profile. Also you can visit people’s profiles, they will visit you back out of natural curiosity. Off course you can also send an email to them, more about this subject in the next article.

Conclusion

With the tips provided in this article you should be able to set up a good dating profile and generate ‘traffic’ to your it. It is important to have the right profile picture to be successful because that is what your visitors will be seeing first. Remember that your profile is your business card and you will attract what you convey.

t is a common problem for men, the first dating email to the person you like…

“What to write”, you might be thinking.

Since this is one of the most important steps in initiating contact with the desired person, you have to do it right. In this article you will find tips about how to do this properly and without scaring your target. We prefer emailing over chatting (you can start chatting later on) because emailing gives you more time to think of something interesting to say, especially if you’re just starting out.

Basic guidelines for the first dating email

It is a bad idea to write complete essays about yourself in the first dating email, people find this creepy and fake. For all they know you send these messages to hundreds of people, and it will come across as weird to tell about your whole life without actually knowing the person you are addressing. Your first dating email shouldn’t  be much longer than 3 sentences.

How to make your target curious about you

Try to get into a calm, confident, natural state of mind. Think to yourself, “what would be a nice first dating email message that I could sent to my target?”. Be witty and creative.

For example, if something caught your eye on the profile, comment on that with a little bit of humor. If you see that the person’s hometown is a small village, you could make a lighthearted farm joke about all the cows the target probably needs to milk in morning in order to be able to eat cornflakes. It is important not to come across as an asshole, but as a balanced, “fun to be around” person with confidence. The target will be thinking, “all the guys always try to suck up to me, but this guy is confident, different and funny, I want to know more about him!” And will be more likely to respond to your message. Another thing you can try is having sincere interest about something that you found on the profile. If you see that the person likes to do something that interests you, you could ask the target to explain a little bit more about it. Important is that you always stay respectful and remember the 3 sentences guideline.

Don’t communicate too long through email

It’s also important to be a little bit mysterious about yourself, but not too much or you will come across as insecure and not sincere! As previously mentioned it’s all about finding the right balance. Aim to email back and forth for no longer than a few days, make your target get more and more curious about you in a positive way. Tell your target something about yourself, not too little and not too much. Always try to end a conversation with a cliffhanger, in other words, try to end the conversation at its highest point. Because of this your target will be really eager to find out more about you, preferably in an actual date!

Conclusion

It is important to give a good impression when you are sending your first dating email to your target, the message will make or break you. As mentioned in the article, it is important to make the target curious about you by being confident, flattering, challenging, funny, respectful and a little bit mysterious. (also called charming) However, if you completely don’t tell anything about yourself you will come across as an insecure, scary guy. Also do not communicate too long through email, arrange an actual meeting when the time is right. More about this subject in the next article.